"Do one thing every day that scares you." Eleanor Roosevelt
October 2019 Newsletter
Lee Chaix McDonough
The Border Zone
As I mentioned in last month’s letter, Fall is an ideal time for new beginnings and fresh starts, which means setting new goals. I encouraged you to consider your values - what matters most to you - when creating these goals. When we link what we wish to accomplish with how we want to live our lives, we feel more connected, more grounded, and we’re more likely to succeed.
However, new goals means stretching outside of our comfort zone and trying new things. That can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and even scary. I’m facing those feelings myself as I prepare to launch my first ever virtual conference, the Clarity Summit, and my new membership site for coaches, Coach with Clarity®.
I’ve never coordinated a major online event like the Clarity Summit before, nor have I run an online membership program. I’m walking the thin line between feeling confident in myself and my abilities, and wondering if I have what it takes to make this all work.
I suspect those of you who working towards your big dreams also know this place well. I call it the Border Zone – the area between the Land of Opportunity, where anything and everything is possible, and the Land of Overwhelm, where fear takes over.
The key sign I’m in the Border Zone is restlessness – a pervasive, low-level, frenetic energy that stays with me throughout the day. Typically, I notice it and press on. But this morning, I tried something different – maybe even a little out there – and the results were amazing.
I picked up a pen and started free writing, asking restlessness what it wanted me to know. I wrote for less than five minutes, but that was enough time for restlessness to share ten tips for navigating the Border Zone and taking on an audacious goal. They are:
Slow down. You are right on time for your life, and you don’t have to accomplish everything today.
Find your center. Overwhelm can pull you off course, so take a moment to reconnect with yourself and your purpose.
Hold fast to your vision. Be clear about what exists for you at the end of your goal. Visualize it and let it guide your actions.
Don’t lose sight of what matters. That big vision you have is anchored in your deepest values. Let those values guide you – not the overwhelm.
Choose three things. Those are your non-negotiables for the day. Do those three things. Everything else is bonus.
Say no to say yes. You have to say no to the wrong things in order to say yes to the right ones.
Rely on your support team. There are people in your life who love you and want to help you. Let them.
Take care of yourself. You cannot pour into others’ cups if you let your pitcher run dry. Fill your pitcher.
Trust the process. Everything is unfolding as it is meant to. You’re on the right path.
YOU are your own best resource. You already have everything you need to create what you want. Don’t doubt yourself. Go do it.
As you continue to work towards your dreams, I hope you find these ten tips helpful and inspiring. Let me know which one particularly speaks to you.
You got this.
Tuesday, October 1st 5:30 - 7:00 p.m.
Evening Meeting with Dinner at The Chelsea
Bridging the Cultural Divide
Debi Miller is a Senior Case Manager at Interfaith Refugee Ministry and has been assisting refugees for the last nine years as they begin a new life in America. Debi has had the opportunity of helping refugees from many countries including Cuba, Colombia, Burma, Vietnam, Afghanistan, Iraq, Syria, Somalia, and the Democratic Republic of Congo. Debi will share how these newcomers become valuable members of our community.
Wednesday, October 16th 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.
Day Meeting with Lunch at the NBG&CC
Art Builds Bridges
Eileen Bress is the executive director of the Craven Arts Council. She will share how the Council serves to provide a bridge between art and the role the Council plays in nurturing relationships throughout our community. Dara Morgan will join the discussion and share how we can find well-being through the therapeutic benefits of artistic expression.
Dinner Dessert Sponsor - Thank you, Camilla
We carry clothing and shoes for both casual style and active outdoor living. Health & Beauty products that make you feel great. Distinctive jewelry, gifts and cards. For your home, you'll find beautiful decor and outdoor furniture. And for the end of the day, pick up a wonderful bottle of wine and tasty snacks.
Let’s meet over a cup of coffee and discover what stumbling blocks may be in your way. Through assessments and one-on-one coaching discussions, Paradigm Associates can offer you insight into what you want or where you want to be, with a practical plan to help you reach your goals!
Eileen Nonemaker, Paradigm Associates North Carolina
Please extend a warm welcome to this month's new members.
Jennifer Bertling, Graceful Tables Linen Rental and Event Planning
Kristen Berton, Smile Labs of New Bern
Mecia Dudley, First Flight Credit Union and Expressive Candy LLC
Pat Stroh, ReMax
Lori Worley, Weyerhauser Company
Missed Meal Policy: Please cancel your meeting registration by 12 noon the Monday prior to the event. If not, we will charge you for the meal that you missed. This policy is due to our advanced guarantee obligation to the venue. We'd much rather have you attend the event but we understand changing schedules.
Medicine Done Differently
At ParkerLane Integrative Health, we believe that you have the ability to restore and maintain good health by strengthening your mind, body, lifestyle, and community.
Our practitioners combine conventional and alternative therapies to address your unique healthcare need and goals.
We partner with you to identify the root cause of your health concerns using a holistic mind-body approach, focusing on nutrition, lifestyle, and stress management.
Our mission is to empower you to be fully engaged in your healing process and embrace lifelong wellness. Check out our website for more information: www.parkerlaneih.com or give us a call at 252-631-5815.
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Ahh ... the Smell of Gingerbread!
It’s already fall and time for pumpkin spice lattes and pulling out those sweaters. That means it is time to think Gingerbread! The New Bern Historical Society invites you to fire up your imagination and join in the Third Annual Gingerbread House Contest! Houses will be on display in downtown shops. Contest winners will receive prizes of cash and gift cards. Deadline to enter on November 11.
Need more confidence? Craven Community College is partnering with the Historical Society to offer an Introduction to Gingerbread House Building class October 7 at 10am or October 16 at 6:30pm. You’ll learn the basics needed to build your very own gingerbread house with no-fail dough and icing recipes.
Whether novice or pro, after this class, you’ll be ready to enter your creation in the Gingerbread House Contest and be a part of the Beary Merry Christmas festivities.
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Jeanne Crockett owner of Crockett’s Critter Care says beware of Halloween. You know the ghosts and goblins that show up on Halloween are friendly, but your pets aren’t so sure! They get distressed by all the commotion, the costumes, and the doorbells. Keep them safe and comfortable on Halloween by putting them in their cozy crate or friendly room. And remember that most decorations and candy, while festive for you, can be tempting and dangerous for pets.
Crockett’s Critter Care has a team of pet professionals that can care for your pets when you’re out for the day or away for the weekend. Jeanne Crockett’s team is bonded and insured which means you are hiring trained professionals to care for your beloved pet whether furry, feathered, or finned. For Fear Free professional pet sitting and dog walking go to crockettscrittercare.com, contact Jeanne by email or call her at 252.635.2655.
Cooler Weather is Coming
October brings changes in weather. Enjoy the cooler temps and savor the outdoors as much as possible. Twenty minutes outside at lunch time will give you energy for the rest of the day.
Massage Therapy is essential for great health.
Take care of YOU because no one else can do it for YOU
Elise A. Medenbach, LMBT Massage Therapy
Glenburnie Professional Center
1425 South Glenburnie Road, Suite 6
New Bern, NC 28560
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Craven County Clean Sweep sponsors four annual clean up events on the first Saturdays of February, May, August and October to help keep New Bern streets and waterways free of litter. The upcoming one (aka Big Sweep) will be Saturday, October 5th, but if that day is not convenient, you can choose another day that fits your schedule!
It’s your choice to help out in any of these ways: by walking along the streets in your own neighborhood; by using your boat to clean up a waterway; by meeting with others at Craven County Administration
Building’s parking lot, 406 Craven Street on that Saturday at 9AM to be assigned a spot or by simply picking any other “trashy” area that’s been bothering you. The amount of time you spend on this is totally up to you – it can be 15 minutes or a few hours. Bags will be provided. The bags will, also, be picked up where you leave them so you do not have to carry them to another spot! For more information, call 633-1477.
Start Your Holiday Shopping Now!
Pure, Safe, Beneficial -- that is the Arbonne way. Make your holiday More the Merrier with the dashing 2019 Holiday Collection from Arbonne. Unwrap new scents and holiday favorites to bring joy and merry moments to those around you. Check out my website for all Arbonne products as well as the Holiday Line. There are so many wonderful items for all those on your gift-giving list--including kids and the guys in your life too!